Every once in a while, we are given opportunities to help people. I normally do not write about our volunteer work, I have mixed feelings when it comes to sharing that part of our lives. But last week, I received a card from Grace, thanking us for what we did for her and her children three years ago.
My company had been in it’s first year of business when my friend, Alicia, asked if we would mind helping pick out room colors for a friend of hers. Absolutely! When I got to the home, I noticed an empty hospital bed and medical equipment in what used to be the den area. Alicia explained that Grace and her two children had been caring for Grace’s husband and their father, Miles, as he fought a long battle with cancer. I don’t exactly remember how the conversation went from paint colors to us going in and doing what we do, but I do know there was a mighty force of friendship and caring behind what transpired in a matter of weeks.
Alicia not only got my help, but had managed to gather local businesses, friends and neighbors to donate time, materials and services as well. Because Grace and her kids had been focused on caring for Miles for so long, the home, barns and just about everything on the property had been neglected and was in need of repairs and fixin up.
Grace was too sweet to want to burden others, too devastated to do it on her own, but somehow, her kids managed to get her out of the house for a week. A group of strangers became friends as we all worked hard to make this shell of a house into a home once again.
It was a crazy week – people coming in all hours of the day and night, repairing walls and ceilings, tearing out old carpeting and installing new floors, repairing roofs and stables, landscaping and just about everything you can imagine. A flurry of hammers, shovels, and tools of all kind. People there for nothing more than to lend a hand to a family they loved or grew to love if they were like me, strangers when we met.
So to receive another “thank you” from Grace three years later truly warmed my heart. To know our small contribution, in the midst of the greatness of other’s efforts, still holds great meaning to her and her kids just makes me smile.
For this once, I will share a secret side of “us” because I feel a bit selfish for not sharing it. I realize this one isn’t just a personal event – it is truly a gathering of giving people, inspired by Grace and her wonderful children, but organized and executed because of her loving friend, Alicia and all the other friends, neighbors, and loved ones.
Thank you Grace, our love went into helping to make your home functional and beautiful. You, Andrew and Jennifer truly deserve it, as I know you have inspired and helped others, and it was our turn to return the favor.
Kate
a new mantle for Grace
That is so awesome!